Moms Don’t Need Permission, But Here It Is Anyway.
Moms, we are not children in school who need permission slips filled out to go on a field trip. But if that’s what it feels like you need, don’t worry—I’ve got you covered. Consider this your official permission slip to put yourself first. And just for fun, I’ll even sprinkle in a little magic and be your fairy godmother of Momcations, granting you these wishes—because you deserve them. ✨
Why Do Moms Feel Like They Need Permission to Take a Break?
Let’s be real for a second—dads don’t ask for permission to take time for themselves. They don’t justify their golf trips, their nights out, or their alone time. Yet when a mom wants to take a break, she’s bombarded with questions:
Who’s going to take care of everything while you’re gone?
Won’t your kids miss you?
Isn’t that selfish?
And suddenly, that long-overdue break feels like a guilty indulgence rather than what it really is—a necessity.
The truth? Taking care of yourself doesn’t mean you love your family any less—it means you love yourself too.
Permission Granted: To Take a Break, To Put Yourself First, To Enjoy the Moment
You don’t need my permission… but if you’re waiting for someone to say it’s okay, here it is: YOU ARE ALLOWED TO PUT YOURSELF FIRST.
✔ Permission granted: To take a break without guilt.
✔ Permission granted: To put yourself first.
✔ Permission granted: To leave the to-do list behind.
✔ Permission granted: To let someone else handle things for a change.
✔ Permission granted: To have fun, laugh, relax, and enjoy the moment.
Because let’s be honest—the world won’t fall apart if you take a few days for yourself. But you? You might if you don’t.
Why Taking a Break Makes You a Better Mom
We’ve been conditioned to believe that a "good mom" is one who gives everything to her kids and asks for nothing in return. But let’s break that myth right now:
A burnt-out mom is not a better mom.
A resentful mom is not a better mom.
A mom who never takes a break is not doing herself or her family any favors.
When you take time for yourself, you come back recharged, refreshed, and happier. And guess what? That makes you a better mom, partner, and human being.
Your Official Momcation Permission Slip
If you need something tangible to make it feel real, I’ve got you. I am officially granting you permission to take a break. Go ahead, print it out. Fill in your name. Stick it on the fridge. Heck, hand it to your family if you need to. Because you deserve this. And if anyone asks, just tell them: The Fairy Godmother of Momcations said so. 😉
Need a permission slip to make it feel official? Here you go! Click to Download or Print.
What Happens When You Finally Say Yes to Yourself?
You remember who you are outside of being a mom.
You reconnect with yourself in a way you didn’t even realize you needed.
You return home happier, more energized, and more present.
You show your kids that self-care is not selfish—it’s necessary.
Your Next Steps: Say Yes to You
You don’t need permission, but if you’ve been waiting for it—you have it now.
💡 Take the first step. Whether it’s a solo walk, a night out, or a full-blown Momcation, find something that’s just for YOU.
✨ Need help making it happen? I’d love to chat and help you figure out the perfect escape—whether it’s a weekend away or a full Momcation experience. Let’s make it happen. 💛
📲 Check out some already made trips by clicking the picture below.
Until next time, here’s to making time for yourself - you deserve it!
~ Jillian
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