Reclaiming Your Identity Beyond Motherhood

Motherhood is one of life’s greatest blessings, but it’s no secret that it can sometimes overshadow other parts of who you are. As moms, we wear many hats—caregiver, chauffeur, chef, counselor, and more. While these roles are rewarding, they can often leave little room to nurture the individual behind the title of “Mom.” Reclaiming your identity beyond motherhood isn’t about neglecting your family—it’s about rediscovering and celebrating the person you were before becoming a parent and the person you’re still growing into.

The Grief of Losing Yourself

Becoming a mother often comes with an unexpected sense of loss. The woman you were before children—her dreams, spontaneity, and carefree spirit—may feel like a distant memory. This grief is real, and it’s okay to acknowledge it. Missing your former self doesn’t mean you love your children any less; it means you’re human. Recognizing this loss is the first step toward reclaiming your identity and integrating the person you were with the incredible mother you’ve become.

Why It’s Important to Rediscover Yourself

When your identity revolves solely around your children, it’s easy to lose sight of your passions, dreams, and unique personality. I know I am not the only one who is addressed as "so an so mom." And while I can't sell all my earthly possession and start on a cross country road trip to rediscover myself, I can take a short break to remind myself, and others, that I am more than just Mom. On this short "Momcation", I may not move a mountain in changing my life or how things are at home, but sometimes it is a small step in the right direction to finding yourself again. 

Introducing the “More Than Just a Mom” Group Sailing

One incredible opportunity to reconnect with yourself and other like-minded moms is the "More Than Just a Mom" group sailing, taking place just after Mother’s Day 2025. This specially curated getaway is designed for moms to step away from the hustle of everyday life and rediscover the vibrant individuals they are. Imagine a cruise filled with endless food options (you do not need to think about one meal to make), relaxing activities (hot tubs, spa appointments or you can take a nap every day if you wish), and plenty of opportunities to form meaningful connections with women who understand your journey..... oh and NO KIDS!

This isn’t just a vacation—it’s a transformative experience that celebrates the multifaceted nature of being a mom and a person with your own dreams and desires. It’s the perfect setting to take that first step toward reclaiming your identity beyond motherhood.

You Deserve This

Motherhood is an integral part of your life, but it doesn’t define the entirety of who you are. Taking the time to rediscover and honor your individuality will not only benefit you but also inspire your family. You deserve to feel whole, fulfilled, and vibrant—both as a mom and as you.

Stay tuned for more details on the “More Than Just a Mom” group sailing, and let’s start this journey together.

QUESTION: What is something that you miss from your life before becoming a mother?

Until next time, here’s to making time for yourself - you deserve it!

~ Jillian

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